I Want to Go Home: How to Respond
Dear Candid Caregiver (Carol): My Dad is having around-the-clock home care, which was his choice early on when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. He’s in the later stages now, but he keeps telling his caregivers, including me when I take a shift, that he wants to go home. I read an article that you wrote where you said that asking to go home didn’t necessarily mean any particular home, but your comments were directed toward the idea of someone living in a nursing home. Since Dad is in the home where he lived for nearly 40 years, you’d think he’d feel some comfort from that. In fact, that’s one reason we’ve continued to stretch the finances to keep all of this care in his home. What could he possibly want that we aren’t delivering? … Dear Sad and Bewildered: I’m so sorry that after all you’ve been doing your dad is still asking this painful question. It’s enough to bring the strongest caregiver to tears. Yet, your dad can’t help it, which you seem to understand. Whether a person living with Alzheimer’s has lived…
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