Clarify Expectations for Hired Care by Using Task List
Dear Carol: I’m married with teenage kids and work full-time. Until recently, I’ve felt I could also support my 83-year-old mom’s care, but her needs are, quite naturally, increasing. After many conversations, she’s finally consented to having some in-home help. Through a friend, I’ve found what seems like a reliable agency, but I’d like an organized way to let the agency caregivers know what should be done. I’ll be at mom’s at least twice a week, so it’s not like I’ll be absent, but my work has trained me that everyone knowing what’s expected is a good idea. I’m hoping for something flexible since not every day or week will be the same. Is there a guide that I could print out and customize for tasks? – LS
Dear LS: This sounds like a good move for the well-being of your whole family. Good work! Your planning and organizing skills will help you immensely as you move forward with caring for your mom. She’s fortunate to have you there. Since I don’t know everything that you already have in place, I’ll start with some basics…
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