Caregiver Tips for Enjoying Holidays With Older Adults

Even though most of us have happy memories of holiday celebrations, this time of the year can be stressful. There are pervasive societal expectations that everything should be cheerful, regardless of the circumstances. Our elders used to be in charge of making the holidays merry while the younger generations were the focus. But as our elders begin to slow down and need more help, the holiday responsibilities increasingly fall to us.

Our desire is simple: keeping seniors involved during the holidays and creating an experience they’ll truly enjoy. However, health conditions, functional limitations, and senior living arrangements often complicate this objective. As the holiday season ramps up, it’s important to remember that your love and attention are the most valuable gifts you can give. That and helping your elders to feel included in whatever ways they can participate. Whether your aging loved one lives in their own home, with you, or in senior living, discover ways to adapt cherished traditions and ideas for new customs that will keep the holiday season festive (yet simple) for you both.

10 tips for creating merry holidays for seniors

For several years, I was responsible for decorating two senior living apartments, two nursing home rooms, and my own home. On top of my usual caregiving duties, I also had shopping, gift wrapping, and holiday meals in several locations to consider. I did try to simplify life as much as possible during this hectic time, but I also wanted to do everything in my power to ensure that my elders had a warm, meaningful holiday season no matter where they lived and how their abilities had changed.

At the start of each new year, I would always ask myself if I had done enough. Although I may not have fully accepted my efforts as sufficient at the time, I realize now that I did give my very best. I learned a great deal throughout this period in my life, and I’d like to share my essential tips for enjoying holidays with seniors.

1. Set the mood
   Play or sing holiday music to set a festive mood. Maybe make mulled cider, eggnog, or hot chocolate to serve to your loved one while decorating, cooking, or reminiscing together. Even small gestures can help you both get into the holiday spirit.
2. Make holiday rituals intergenerational
   Time shared between different generations is very special. While I generally frown…

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