Can a Caregiver Be an Effective Advocate Without Appearing Adversarial?
Dear Carol: I’m confused about how much oversight I should provide for my dad who has moved into memory care. He’s in mid-stage dementia. I visit most days so that I can keep him company as well as make sure he’s well cared for. So far, even though the staff are pressed for time, they’re generally amazing. Still, there are times when I think that I should speak up for him, so I do. How can I advocate for Dad’s best interest without appearing unreasonable or worse, adversarial? – MS
Dear MS: Attitude says a lot. I’ve known people who make it plain to the staff from the start that they aren’t trusted to do the right thing. In my mind, that starts the relationship with the facility off on the wrong foot. Neglect and/or abuse do happen, and when it does, it needs to be aggressively investigated. That said, in my own community…
Minding Our Elders: Caregivers Share Their Personal Stories. “For anyone having to walk the last segments of life with a loved one, read this.” …Delores
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