Dad Agonizes Over the Inevitable Loss of Privacy After Death
Dear Carol: My dad is a retired college professor and researcher with a reserved nature. He’s told me that while he’s come to accept that his health has deteriorated and he’s unlikely to live out the year, he agonizes over the loss of privacy that comes with death. Dad’s scrupulously honest so this has nothing to do with shame, but he says that knowing that others will go through his belongings feels invasive. What can I do to help him relax about this besides just reassure him that I will protect his dignity to whatever degree I am able? – MH
Dear MH: I’m so sorry about your dad’s health. It’s painful for both of you to know that his life is now measured in months rather than years. While older generations aren’t alone with this worry, it’s at the forefront of many of their minds since logically, their remaining time on earth is closing out. Additionally, I believe that this worry is more prevalent now…
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