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Dear Carol: Two years ago, my wife was diagnosed with mixed dementia. I’ve always been a logical, literal, some might say plodding person. My darling wife was accepting of my too-detailed explanations for practically everything as just a quirk. I’ve read enough about dementia now to understand that she’s changed. I get that too much explanation will only confuse her, but how do I help her with what she needs to do if I don’t explain? Even simple things like why she needs a coat when it’s cold out create a backlash. Can you help me with my mindset or the right words or something? I’m at a loss. – PY
Dear PY: You sound like a dedicated, loving husband faced with an experience that would baffle anyone, so please give yourself some grace. That said, keep reminding yourself that your wife has changed. Following logic, such as the why and how to wear a coat, would require…
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