What Is Parentification and How Does It Relate to Role Reversal?

I was pleased to see one on my articles referenced in this excellent piece about the relationship between aging parents and their adult children where he discuses “role reversal”: Written by By Judd Matsunaga, Esq. and published by The Rafu Shimpo.

“It’s difficult enough to step in, set boundaries and help someone we love manage their lives without making them feel incompetent and devalued. While there may be similarities between parenting and elder care, there are far more stark differences. Preserving an elder’s dignity, independence and sense of control as much as safely possible should be a priority for caregivers. (Source: www.agingcare.com, “How Role Reversal Skews Your Thoughts,” Carol Bradley Bursack)”

Give this article a read. It could make your caregiving road a lot less bumpy:

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