Top Tips for Understanding the Dementia Side of Interactions
Dear Carol: Alzheimer’s runs in our family. We prayed Mom would be spared, but that’s not to be, and last week, she received her official diagnosis. I’ve read enough of your work to know not to argue because her sense of logic is slipping away. You’ve also stressed we shouldn’t say things like “Don’t you remember?” because that would humiliate her. My large extended family could use some help, so we’re asking you to provide general tips to help everyone understand how Mom’s brain works. We want to do better. – TG
Dear TG: Your mom is fortunate to have someone by her side who cares so deeply about her well-being. I have no doubt you’ll do a great job. Only people living with dementia can understand the depth of the struggle. Thankfully, though, a few of them have written books and created blogs that can educate caregivers and advocates. Understand that everyone is different, and every day, sometimes every minute, is different. That’s why caregivers need to be patient with…
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“An inspiring read for caregivers! Minding Our Elders is a series of stories about caregiving. But it is much more than that. It’s a book that helps us view aging and community through the lens of someone well versed in eldercare. Author Carol Bradley Bursack has been a caregiver for a neighbor and six elderly members of her family. These experiences made her the perfect person to interview and share the stories of friends and acquaintances. Through crisp writing and a sharp focus, we enter the lives of those struggling to care for loved ones with dementia and other age-related illnesses. As I read Minding Our Elders, I felt myself filling up with both appreciation and admiration for those who adopt the caregiving role. In addition, I was struck with the inherent value Carol sees in our elders. This is a well-written book that will stir your heart!” …Ann C
