Support Can Improve Post-Stroke Grief and Depression
Dear Carol: My dad had a stroke a few months ago. He’s recovered enough to come home, which would be great news, except that he’s struggling emotionally. Dad’s been grieving Mom’s death from two years ago, but overall, he’s held up reasonably well, leaning on his long-neglected woodworking hobby to give his life direction. Now, since the use of his left arm and hand is limited and his leg is weak, he’s lost that, too. The physical therapist told him this is as good as he’ll get. He’s unable to drive, so he stays home, isolated and without focus. Our family is attentive. I check in by phone daily and with regular in-person visits, and he has some social contact due to in-home assistance, but it’s not enough. How can I encourage him to start living again? – RU
Dear RU: Between your mom’s death and the stroke, your dad has suffered a lot of loss in a relatively short time. My heart goes out to him. You’ve also suffered great loss, yet are stepping up to help your dad, which isn’t easy. Remind yourself that you can’t take…
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