With Medical Test and Treatments for Older Adults, Often Less is More
Dear Carol: I’m upset because my dad, age 84, is refusing a colonoscopy even though he’s had some blood in his stools. He says it’s hemorrhoids, but I think he needs to get a colonoscopy to find out for sure. He says that even if it’s colon cancer, he’s not willing to undergo surgery, chemotherapy, and/or radiation to treat it. I was sure his doctor, who has a lot of experience with older adults, would argue for this testing, but that’s not happening. He did mention a new camera test, but I don’t think that’s good enough. Is this just to save the system money? Older adults deserve the best! How can I get Dad to agree and convince the doctor to do tests? Doesn’t his life matter? – PE
Dear PE: It’s obvious that you love your dad and don’t want to lose him. You’re a good advocate. With that in mind, it’s important for you to ask your dad about his goals of care as he continues to age. Much…
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