Imperfection Is Perfect: Cherish Your Messy Christmas as Unique and Precious
Dear Carol: I can only imagine how often you’ve heard from caregivers over holiday angst, but you keep supporting us so I’m writing anyway. I’m swamped with daily life, let alone carrying out holiday traditions. My dad is in memory care, yet he still needs us to be with him during their celebrations. My mom is alone now, and somewhat impaired herself. My children have school events that I want to attend. My husband helps but can only do so much. I feel like I’ve made a slipshod job of everything, and our holiday celebration is a mess. Can you remind all caregivers that we’re doing all right under these circumstances? – EL
Dear EL: You might be reading this as we approach Christmas Eve, on Christmas Day, or sometime during the following week, but the sentiment holds: You’ve not only done all right; you’ve been a champ. Slipshod? I doubt it. Caregivers already do double time with life. Add in holidays…
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